Posted By: sPlKe
would you take somebody in a wheelchair as partner? - 07/13/09 09:57
i assume that, if your current partner has an accident and needs a wheelchair, you wont leave him/her. i wouldnt.
no. this question is, would you take somebody as partner that is in a wheelchair when you meet him/her?
lets say, that woman/man is everything you ever hoped to be, but he/she sits in a wheelchair for the rest of her/his life.
everythign below the waist is dead.
he/she needs diapers, and you can never have sex with him/her because of that situation.
would you still take him/her?
i thought of this while watching columbo. at first i thought that wouldnt be a problem for me, but then i realized what that meant. complete restructure of living place. complete restructure of life style. cuddling together, bathing ect, everything becomes rather hard to do. even if the person wouldnt need diapers and could have sex, its hard.
think of it. moving, shopping, even trivial things like watching a movie gets harder without using your feet.
i came to the conclusion that no, i would not take that person as partner.
please, this is not about your current partner. dont talk about love and stuff. you just recently met that person. there is no love yet. this is about if youd allow it to become love.... dont talk about your current partner. and think of it. dont just write...
no. this question is, would you take somebody as partner that is in a wheelchair when you meet him/her?
lets say, that woman/man is everything you ever hoped to be, but he/she sits in a wheelchair for the rest of her/his life.
everythign below the waist is dead.
he/she needs diapers, and you can never have sex with him/her because of that situation.
would you still take him/her?
i thought of this while watching columbo. at first i thought that wouldnt be a problem for me, but then i realized what that meant. complete restructure of living place. complete restructure of life style. cuddling together, bathing ect, everything becomes rather hard to do. even if the person wouldnt need diapers and could have sex, its hard.
think of it. moving, shopping, even trivial things like watching a movie gets harder without using your feet.
i came to the conclusion that no, i would not take that person as partner.
please, this is not about your current partner. dont talk about love and stuff. you just recently met that person. there is no love yet. this is about if youd allow it to become love.... dont talk about your current partner. and think of it. dont just write...