Interesting question...

If I would talk in the "german tax law" speech,
I would say "es ist eine Einzelfallenscheidung".

It depends deeply on the life structure of "every special single" individuum.
For somebody who loves outdoor sports, parties, gang bangs, life on the move it would be a very hard decision.

Could he loose or change his life for somebody else in a wheelchair?

The question is simply...
Is the given worth for chainging identity high enough? Love could be.

The majority want to see a rhetorical, ethical
statement in this point. But I think, it would be much easier to think like nature would do.

Because if you think there is something which give us ethical mind, this ethic is even a law for nature.

It makes no sense to n o t kill what you kill, even a mind about something what kill your identity.

Don´t get me wrong - killing your identity is not bringing your identity to a higher level.

Me personal. No, I would / want not change my life.