If one does not seek for himself, he doesn't know himself.

Thing that I have told to myself many times, in many instances:
Seek the past and you will find your way to future.

Searching for my own self, I can learn the things that people don't see in me. The dark and the light side, the goods and the bads.

To be honest, when you have your key to the little door, you aren't supposed to find new key, but to alter the key in your hand. The key given to you will open all the seals and locks.

Amount of time used does not implify the amount of progress.

For the sex thing. Sex is one of the many ways to show your love against other person. Love is the feeling inside, you the burning and hurting feeling inside you giving you strength to care of the person.